Re: The Older Boyfriend (Score: 0) by on Sunday, 17 October 2004 (07:00:28) UTC
Hi
Love the site. I've followed your advice and have got the girl to cheat with me, but she hasn't completely surrendered. I live with her in a student apartment. This is another case of the boyfriend being a long way away (different countries).
I keep going back to the strategy of building the tension, which seems to work. Alcohol seems to be a factor as well.
I think she is currently confused. After we slept together for the first time she said this was something she could not deal with. When it was just kissing she could live with the cheating. I think a decision from her is close.
Any tips on finally pushing her over the edge? Anything to avoid? I know your expertise is stealing and dumping but I think I want to keep this one.