| After the Kiss |  Here's a tip for you: So, you're at the stage where you make the first serious move - you actually kiss her. Now comes the big question... what do you say afterwards? There are two obvious alternatives:- say something strong and passionate along the lines of "I've been wanting to do that since I first met you", then carry her off to the bedroom.
- act totally shocked and confused about what happened, like it was spontaneous - "Oh... I'm so sorry... I... I didn't plan for that to happen".
Although alternative 1 has the advantage of being very flattering forthe girl, alternative 2 usually works better. This is because: - a) alternative 1 can be a bit too strong. No one likes to feel they've been stalked or hunted.
- b) if the kiss made her angry or upset she doesn't react as violently. It doesn't seem as if you're to blame, just that you were so overcome with desire that at the spur of the moment you couldn't help yourself, and would never have done it if you were thinking rationally.
- c) the girl is totally flattered that she is attractive enough to cause irrational behaviour, like an spontaneous kiss, in a guy.
- d) if you get this bit right she's yours - a surprised reaction may fool her into believing that the kiss was at her instigation, or at least that she is as much to blame as you.
- e) it makes you seem sensitive.
Lastly, if she says "I had no idea you felt that way about me", a clever response is "I think I only just realised it myself". Act full of wonderment and inspired awe at the realisation. This transforms you from a sneaky guy who's trying to worm his way between her and her man into the perfect man she's destined to be with, if it wasn't for that slack boyfriend of hers. It's no longer you that's forcing the two of you together, but fate. This help is from a girl, incidently. I'm a hardcore serial boyfriendstealer, but frankly I find guys too easy sometimes. Not enough challenge. Hope this advice works for you, you see once I got stolen bya guy who used alternative 2 on me. I only later found out he'd been planning it for weeks. GS:
This sounds like it just might work. Thanks for the thoughtful analysis. Let's get some more details about your boyfriend stealing exploits.
| | Posted on Wednesday, 18 August 2004 (19:08:47) UTC by gfs | | |
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Re: After the Kiss (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Thursday, 14 October 2004 (01:58:01) UTC | | that sounds like a great approach. i think the best way to gauge whether to use number one or number two, is to look right into get eyes after the kiss is finished, if she kissed you back and there was some tongue involved, number one is definitely the way to go, but if your not QUITE sure about it, if theres any doubt about it, use line two, but either way, if she kissed you back, your doin pretty good in my opinion. wow. i just got in the record book for worlds longest run on sentence. |
Re: After the Kiss (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Friday, October 29 | What if you are a little to young (lets say 8th grade) to go with the "carry her off to the bedroom" approach. I don't exactly want to go with number 2 because we have been going out for about six months (I know it seems like I should have kissed her a while back but there r 2 reason, one I was a little shy which isn't me at all at least not with this girl, and number 2 is that her friends keep telling me too and I don't exactly do what I am told when it comes to my girlfriends friends) so all I really want to know is what would be a good time to kiss her, and what should I say afterwords...
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Re: After the Kiss (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Monday, March 28 | the most important thing to do is act like shes ur bestfriend
be natural about it
dont worry about what to say
if u feel comfortable the right things would just pop out of ur mouth
like this
kiss for a while, then say "***** baby, you taste good today".
shes ur bestfriend, theres nothing to worry about |
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by Anonymous on Tuesday, January 24 | ya this most definetely is the right thing to do i mostly have to agree with what u say...i've done that and its always worked  |
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Re: After the Kiss (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Wednesday, 15 December 2004 (01:30:05) UTC | | Well, the option I always use is to just smile subtly and coyly, and don't say anything. Maintain strong eye contact, and get HER to break the silence. It's only uncorfortable if you MAKE it uncomfortable. |
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I like girl, not sure if she likes me! (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Friday, 11 February 2005 (22:18:12) UTC | | I like this girl in my class, she found out that i like her because i told someone and they couldnt keep their stupid mouth shut! When she found out i kept deneying it and saying that i dont like her i like someone else. What am i supposed to do? I want her as a girlfriend. |
Re: I like girl, not sure if she likes me! (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Monday, February 21 | Simple - ask her
or
Send her little messages chicks love getting them put em in her desk or sumthing..
Gd luck man |
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Re: I like girl, not sure if she likes me! (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Sunday, March 13 | tell her the truth
because this happened to me once
some times girls do that as a test
to see if your worthy of telling the truth or to show that your not scared to love her while people know
so tell her and dont be shy about it just a simple yes
and then tell her why
a female love to hear why you love them
and that gives them a reason to love you back |
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Re: I like girl, not sure if she likes me! (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Thursday, October 20 | yo lol i no how it feels i liked a girl and my friend told . it suks! she hates me!but lol we kissed once. and guess what im only 11 hahaha  |
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Re: I like girl, not sure if she likes me! (Score: 1)
by Romeo614 on Wednesday, November 02
(User Info | Send a Message) | | I've pulled hundreds of women...So please pay attention to my advice...1st off when the girl confronted you asking about the rumor of wether or not you liked her you should have said yes. So now you'll have to take it slow with her....Try some light flirting....let her know your intrested....Try this line... "I bet you have a pretty smile"... and when she smiles say " I told you so"... After about a week Increase the flirting...Untill one day get her alone and just flat out kiss her...but make it seem like an accident....she'll know your intrested then |
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Re: I like girl, not sure if she likes me! (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Saturday, December 10 | Look I have this problem to just get her alone somewhere
and tell her how you really feel.Tell her why you like her then ask her out.If that doesn't work make her wish she had you. |
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Re: I like girl, not sure if she likes me! (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Tuesday, January 24 | This has happened to me plenty of times.....be glad u saw my reply...what you do is you find her and you say to her....i'm sorry for denying you* i really do like you* and you butter her up with ur
comments about how pretty she is and how good she is. Then if she replies well i have a boyfriend already then you just say oh well thats cool...just promise me one thing you'll give me a chance if he disses you. The most likely response from her is *{OK}*. If she say's no then just back off and find another girl. But if she says i like you to then you probally would want to change suject by saying "so you wana talk about eachother at lunch". She's most likely gonna say "sure i'd like that". then you first meet her and you start your talking off by saying "Hey....so how was your class today". But dude if you wana like get in her pants then please please dont say it to her at first because you'll just blow ur chances of getting her.. just wait till the right time comes and then u can go in for her and carry her of to the bedroom. that is if only she wants you bad and she wants ur to be her "bf"....... one more thing if shes walking with you down the hall and some other gil/boy approaches her/you. if its a girl that approaches you then u would want to flatter ur new gf by saying to the approaching girl that wants you...."you know if you werent blind you would of noticed that i have already met the most georgous girl in the school and i am not about to fall for you" then ur gf will be impressed and probally like you more. but if its a boy that approaches ur gf then you would want to say to him...yo bro back the ***** off her.... i know she only likes me
and she most likely isnt about to date ur lame ass. and hewill mostly likely reply to ur defensive comment. what you do is u say dude i dont have time to fool around with you...because i got a girl to be with!!!! if the boy tries to touch ur gf somewhere where she doesnt like to be touched or anywhere on ur gf then u should punch the shit out of him..and tell him i told you not to mess with her didnt I" and he'll most likely run off.
if this fails then just let me know..because i have more ti[s on how to get the girl of your dreams. but for now i'll have to talk to you l8ter cuz i got my girl to be with so i have to go... i hope this works out for you and ur girl. I am only 12 yrs old but i have a hell of a lot of experience from the past "lol" so dont think that this advice is just a bunch of bull shit because it works" please dude try this ok. i have to go bro i'll c ya l8ter.. oh and good luck my hats off 2 you. c ya |
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Re: I like girl, not sure if she likes me! (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Saturday, September 08 | dude... thats total AFC.... and chicks like compliments, but they don't like compliments when the guys trying to use them to get in their pants (usually).
lool... you don't "butter" them up, your attention is worth as much (or more) than theirs.
just a bit of advice.... for a guy that could turn out like Raymond on "everybody loves raymond" |
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Re: After the Kiss (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Monday, 27 June 2005 (13:30:04) UTC | | I'd like to get her to like me so much that SHE is the one that kisses me because if I went for the kiss I'd probably make an idiot of my self, have you ever done that, or does it make it more comfortable when the ur gf/bf ((in your case bf)) goes for the kiss first? |
Re: After the Kiss (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Tuesday, August 02 | personally i think that its better you kiss first establish who the boss in the relationship lol  ................... |
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