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| Shyness |
|Anonymous writes: Yeh well here it goes.... |
Basically i think i'm the shyest guy on earth, and well there is this girl at work, and i try to talk to her, but it's basically just like...hey how you doing? and that's our conversation. I try to strike up a conversation, but i never know what to say....in my mind i'm thinking, damnit think.... say something.....but i never do.
And i always she her at this club i goto, and i'm like tonight's the night, i'm dancing with this girl and i head towards, but when i get to her i walk right by her and chicken out like a pansy.
Anywho long story short, I have zero confidence in myself. How does one overcome that?
GFS: It's tough. Tell yourself, everyone else is in the same boat. And think, what's the worst that can happen? The worst thing is that she'll think you're shy (which she probably already knows.)
Just relax and if it doesn't work out, well, you'll do better next time. Don't put too much pressure on yourself about. If you're shy and uncomfortable, it makes the other person uncomfortable as well... and that will just make it worse for yourself.
So next time, go up to her and say hi. Then ask her if you can buy her a drink. Then start things off by talking about things you have in common: work, the club etc. But don't bore her with too much work stuff. Ask her about herself... that will give you a chance to relax and just listen.
|Posted on Wednesday, 20 October 2004 (18:48:26) UTC by gfs |
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|Re: Shyness (Score: 0)|
by Anonymous on Friday, 29 April 2005 (11:40:50) UTC
|ok the key to this is just be nice to her just ask her how her day is going and what she likes u know her hobbies and stuff like that then ask her out to a movie just be sure its one she wants to see and be sure u pay for the movie and all that stuff but u gotta relax when u are with her just pretend shes one of ur guy friends just dont say something perverted to her.|
|Re: Shyness (Score: 0)|
by Anonymous on Friday, 07 September 2007 (02:09:43) UTC
|Well ok seems pathetic but a wile back my mom said buying drinks for a girl is kind..for a drunk|
i suggest first figure out if shes going to that club an at work be confident in yourself an say hi hows it goin etc. if thats as far as you got ever try an find somthings shes interested in and impress her a little just dont go overboard. once u know her somewat better magicaly appear at the club an again just go for it! say hi fancy seeing u hear (dont really say that but u get the idea)an ask for a dance, from there it should take off ask her to lunch etc.
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