Anonymous writes: heres the situation I met a girl great wonderful gorgeous girl her cousin had a thing for me i brushed her cousin off after causing much strife between the two of them went after the girl and i lied to her about my age, now keep in mind i didnt think it was bad at the time however now i realize how bad it was she found out i lied when she confronted me and then i finnaly told her the truth, i spent a year trying to get back with her and i forced my self to move on I still want her but am dating/relationship with someone else to top it off, all through this her cousin and me remained very good friends, her cousin heard i had messed around with some one else after we broke up which is not true but it hurt her and she has a hard time trusting me...now after some time i find out she was never really over me and always liked me and wanted to give it some time before we got back together so she could trust me again, now I will wait for this girl as long as it takes its one of those i love her kind of things in either event what the hell do I do know
It beats me why women get so upset about something dumb like age. But for some reason they do. It basically reflects badly on her inability to trust people which typically stems from a lack of confidence.
The thing to do is get her to trust you again. And the way to do that with women is to open up to her emotionally and tell her how you feel about things. Do NOT tell her you love her and stuff like that. Just tell her other personal feelings (things that won't FREAK HER OUT!) that you wouldn't tell anyone else. By trusting her (with something women value highly) she will begin to trust you.
Posted on Friday, 08 October 2004 (11:43:06) UTC by gfs