| The Older Boyfriend |  This is my situation and I am hoping that maybe you can help me out. There is this women I really like she is 20 and I am 21. My problem is that she has a boyfriend and he is around the age of 40-45.Now I know that some women believe that age does not matter, but I feel that this is way too much of an age difference. Anyway, I feel that I might have her interest. Whenever I see her which is always with her man, she . . . how can I say this? Whenever I see her which is always at dances ( non-alchoholic dances) she notices me as soon as I arrive. Usually before I know that she is even there. It is always one of my friends pointing out to me that she is watching me ( I'm talking not even 10 min after I arrive). Anyway, I know that it must be me and not one of my friends that has her interest because I will keep changing groups that I hang around with at these dances. I guess, like a social butterfly! I will go and hang around with one group for about one hour then move over to another, then later on move to another making my rounds to all my friends and even then she knows where I am at all the time. Anyway, I have not done nothing because this man has a lot of respect from a lot of influential people in my area. but, I really like this women and believe that maybe if we can spend some time with each other then things might work out for us. Oh yeah!! I almost forgot I did at one time approach her before she got with her boyfriend and she light right up and was acting all shy, then I left, I choked!!!! Well, later that night one of her friends told me she was interested (after she left). Then I never seen her for about 2-3 months. After she started to come around again she was with this man  We live in different towns but usually see each other every 2-3 weeks. I have not been to any dances for 2 months and I know that I will see her on the twentieth because there is a dance in her town and all my friends are going and I feel that I can't let this oppurtunity slip by. If you can make any suggestions to help then that would be great! I am single right now, I ended a relationship a month and a half ago. Life's to short to wait for any one person but, I would like to see if this is possible. Please e-mail me back if you can by tuesday, nov 17,98
| | Posted on Wednesday, 18 August 2004 (19:24:18) UTC by gfs | | |
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Re: The Older Boyfriend (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Sunday, 17 October 2004 (07:00:28) UTC | Hi
Love the site. I've followed your advice and have got the girl to cheat with me, but she hasn't completely surrendered. I live with her in a student apartment. This is another case of the boyfriend being a long way away (different countries).
I keep going back to the strategy of building the tension, which seems to work. Alcohol seems to be a factor as well.
I think she is currently confused. After we slept together for the first time she said this was something she could not deal with. When it was just kissing she could live with the cheating. I think a decision from her is close.
Any tips on finally pushing her over the edge? Anything to avoid? I know your expertise is stealing and dumping but I think I want to keep this one. |
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Re: The Older Boyfriend (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Friday, 15 April 2005 (20:23:31) UTC | | i hate wen girls do that, i knew this 17year old girl that went out with a 46 year old man, its easy just joke to her about it, well it worked for me lol |
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Re: The Older Boyfriend (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Sunday, 17 December 2006 (18:52:28) UTC | | man, keep in there. if their is not one thin i have learned about dating si you need persistants, lots of it, and patients. |
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by Anonymous on Wednesday, 22 August 2007 (20:29:24) UTC | i always have tried to get a girl but it seems to me that i have bad luck with girls. i tried talkin but every time i try to talk i get so shy even if im asking a girl what to do on an assignment or asking her where the bathroom is. im smart, kinda cool, and girls ignore me, maybe because they think im an idiot, looser, stupid, nerd, bad looking.
i had always thought that girls like expensive things but i took my $175 jordans, $75 dollar shirt, $50 dollar jeans, $600 dollar phone, $20 dollar socks and they still ignore me. they look at me and i look at them and try to look at her in the eyes but i cant, im shy. i got bad luck with girls. any help? |
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