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Sup i am just recently finding out that my girl has cheated on me with one of my good friends. This is really a complicated issue for me because for once i really like the girl and wouldnt mind her being with me for a long time. It apparently happend one night when she had people over drinking at her house and me and a couple of friends were over at her house. I ended up leaving when the party began winding down but a few of her girlfriends where spending the night over at her house. Before I left i said goodnight to my girl and asked my friends mike and Bristen if they were going to leave also. Mike, lives a few houses from my girlfriend so he said he was gonne stay there for a little longer and walk back to his house becuase he was too drunk to drive so i thought nothing of it and left because i had to work early in the morning. The next day she had people over again and my girl was acting really strange towards me. It wasnt untill three days later that Kathleen ( my girl ) called me at work and told me she had something she had to tell me in person. When i got to her house after work she told me that she didnt want to hurt me after I asked her what the problem was. She told me that she made out with mike who had been a close friend for four years or so. I was mad of course but i felt as if she wasnt telling me everything because she said she forgot how it happend and how long there little make out session lasted. I immeadiatly went to speak with mike himself about the issue. All he could say im sorry i was really drunk. I tried my hardest to not be mad and it worked untill my other friend jake told me i didnt know the whole story. On my way back from the casino the next day, Jake told mike to tell me what really happend with my gf. I found out that she just didnt kiss him but somehow went into her room and got buck ass naked and she gave him oral pleasure. The whole fact almost makes me sick. I was so furious becuase she told me straight to my face that she didnt do anytihing but kiss and it was a big mistake. She wasnt even drunk and she did it. we broke up that same night after i woke her up and bitched at her for a while. At this point I was real bummed out becasue this is the longest relationship i ahve ever been in Seven months. I tried my best to work it out still maybe because i am dumb but i really cared for her. I still wonder if i can even trust her. It used to be at least for me once a cheater always one but i changed so i hope she can also. The only problem is that she admitted to having feelings for him for the longest time and said she still does but she loves me. I was very doubtfull. Now i am just waiting to see how things play out. I dont know if this means anything or not but yesterday she said she was going to chill wtih her friend candice for a while then call me because she wanted to hang out but she ended up not answering her phone because it was on silent. That is fine with me but then later when she finally called me back at the end of the day she said she left candice and went over to mikes house for a while and chilled. This made me mad at the moment because she also said that she got back from his house and fell asleep so she couldnt answer my call. I really dont trust her alone with mike at all. Even though I had a talk with mike about his feeling for her. He said he had feelings for her and would of gone out with her If I wasnt. Every time that i bring up the cheating to kathleen she gets mad and tells me to stop bringing it up but i may still sub consioiusly have my doubts that she can stay dedicated to me. I wonder how much she actually goes over to his house when i drop her off at home because she says she is tired. I dont know what i am asking for, maybe just some advice to either start trusting her again or how to find out if she is still doing things with him or not

GFS: Wow, that sucks I would have to say that you have no reason to trust her. She seems to keep lying and there is no reason to think she'll stop soon. She probably doesn't really know what she wants so she's just messing around. My advice is to ask her to make some decision and be ready to walk away. Also be ready for the fact she might go out with Mike. I know it's shitty when someone betrays your trust but remember the good times and find a new girl.