The Girlfriend Stealer's Homepage - How to Get a Girlfriend

Wow do i have a problem...

I am totally infatuated with this girl! Shes a blonde bombshell!!! She is the girl of my dreams!!! Only one problem though. She has a boyfriend that she is in a serious relationship with. I have known her for about 6 months and i met her at work. From the moment i paid eyes on her i had an instant crush on her. The second day i worked with her we went to dinner afterwards and sence then we have been great friends. But i dont want a "great friend", I want a girl friend! The thing that confuses me is that she flirts with me constantly and it drives me NUTS!!! Another thing that confuses me is that the one time her relationship with her boy friend was on the rocks and he umped her she invited me over to her house to watch a movie and we ended up sleeping in the same bed but not doing anything, just cuddling. The next day they were going back out. Yet another thing that confuses me is that she doesnt like her boyfriend and ive told her numerous times to break up with him and she still hasnt because she is afraid of life with out him. Even her friends are telling her to dump her boyfriend and go out with me! Why wont she? I have expressed my feelings twards her in the matter of me liking her but she will never tell me that she likes me! She will just start flirting with me again! Help me!!!

GFS: OK, this is a girl who needs attention. She needs to be with a guy to feel good about herself. And like you say, she's afraid of life without her boyfriend. You've got to make her work harder to get you. Pull back and don't always be around for her. Make her feel like she could lose you.