The Older Boyfriend
Date: Wednesday, 18 August 2004 (19:24:18) UTC
Topic: Stealing Central


This is my situation and I am hoping that maybe you can help me out. There is this women I really like she is 20 and I am 21. My problem is that she has a boyfriend and he is around the age of 40-45.Now I know that some women believe that age does not matter, but I feel that this is way too much of an age difference. Anyway, I feel that I might have her interest. Whenever I see her which is always with her man, she . . . how can I say this? Whenever I see her which is always at dances ( non-alchoholic dances) she notices me as soon as I arrive. Usually before I know that she is even there. It is always one of my friends pointing out to me that she is watching me ( I'm talking not even 10 min after I arrive). Anyway, I know that it must be me and not one of my friends that has her interest because I will keep changing groups that I hang around with at these dances. I guess, like a social butterfly! I will go and hang around with one group for about one hour then move over to another, then later on move to another making my rounds to all my friends and even then she knows where I am at all the time. Anyway, I have not done nothing because this man has a lot of respect from a lot of influential people in my area. but, I really like this women and believe that maybe if we can spend some time with each other then things might work out for us.

Oh yeah!! I almost forgot I did at one time approach her before she got with her boyfriend and she light right up and was acting all shy, then I left, I choked!!!! Well, later that night one of her friends told me she was interested (after she left). Then I never seen her for about 2-3 months. After she started to come around again she was with this man Sad

We live in different towns but usually see each other every 2-3 weeks. I have not been to any dances for 2 months and I know that I will see her on the twentieth because there is a dance in her town and all my friends are going and I feel that I can't let this oppurtunity slip by. If you can make any suggestions to help then that would be great! I am single right now, I ended a relationship a month and a half ago. Life's to short to wait for any one person but, I would like to see if this is possible. Please e-mail me back if you can by tuesday, nov 17,98







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