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  She's with someone else and knows my feelings!
Playas PlaybookAnonymous writes: I wish I learned some things first. In my case I really like this girl for a year and it looked like she liked me, but I made the mistake of telling her how I felt about her. Long story short she says she doesn't feel the same way about me and worse she met someone else and he is her boyfriend. I feel like she was starting to fall for me but then it went nowhere and now this has happened. She says she just wants to be friends! However, she is still receptive to my flirting with her. I guess she loves the attention. What can I do to salvage this and get her wanting me and to be with me?


Playa:

You'll never get her as a boyfriend but maybe as a short-term fling. According to a study in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, people decide what kind of relationship they want within minutes of meeting. Now the good news is that women have been known to change their minds! However, once it goes from "maybe something" to "let's be friends" it can never return. The door is closed.

You can try keeping low for a while (no, I don't mean go down on her!) and see if she starts missing the attention. That's your best bet. Keep her wanting a little more.
Posted on Friday, 10 September 2004 (15:17:08) UTC by gfs

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Re: She's with someone else and knows my feelings! (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Monday, 12 June 2006 (11:26:05) UTC
For this subject, I'd avoid her for a while and if she called or tried to speak to you give her a cold shoulder. It'll keep you on her mind for days. Just dont be to hard or she'll actually just forget about you. lol. Eventrually speak to her.



liked her for a long time, thought she liked me, now... (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Sunday, 13 August 2006 (02:24:15) UTC
Im having a similar problem... I've liked this girl since we started school together about 2 years ago. She's beautiful, Im not even close to her 'legue' but I still have strong feelings for her. Im heavily overweight, she's not; thats my main problem. I've been flirting with her, and hanging out with her ever since i met her. we were really good friends. but she has also been dating this bastard of hers off and on since a few months after i met her. He's a dic* to her and treats her so badly that i litterally had to come to her house more than once in the middle of the night to console her. But i think i put myself into a bad position by doing that, plus getting in her boyfriends face and beating his as* didnt help me much. But i've gotten mixed feelings from her that she likes me, but then i told her how i felt and she hasnt even spoken to me in about a week... usually we speak every night. what can I do just to get back to being friends? I know i will never get her as a girl friend, unless you can help me there? I dunno just tell me any advice to either of these please!?!?

thanks,
nick



Re: She's with someone else and knows my feelings! (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Friday, 20 July 2007 (21:29:21) UTC
"You'll never get her as a boyfriend but maybe as a short-term fling. According to a study in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, people decide what kind of relationship they want within minutes of meeting. Now the good news is that women have been known to change their minds! However, once it goes from "maybe something" to "let's be friends" it can never return. The door is closed.

You can try keeping low for a while (no, I don't mean go down on her!) and see if she starts missing the attention. That's your best bet. Keep her wanting a little more."

if she didn't miss you...you move on am i right? cause i think my situation is the same only thing is that i met this girl about a month after her break up and told me she moved on already. so i told her how i felt about her. after that i'm having this feeling that she hates me and i don't know why. i feel somewhat paranoid.


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